I'm a 43-year-old guy and I've been sticking various things in my ass since I was about 12. I love the feeling of being stretched and full. Currently, the largest object I stick in my ass is a 20-oz. Mountain Dew bottle. I've reached the point where I don't really want to take anything thicker, and have now started working on taking things deeper. My wife fists me about once a month, and it's heavenly. I love the looks of some of the BD toys, and some day hope to be able to afford to order one.