Get the Large Sleipnir soft, in black friday. I������d prefer another color in medium firmness with suction cup, but this one was a good price! This is my first ride in it, and I am glad for buying a Large, not Extra Large. All my toys are Extra Large (chance unflared and flared, nox, crackers, nova, flint, cole), but Sleipnir XL is just to much for me now. The large diameters are: 10 inches at head, 9 in in shaft just bellow head, 10,5 in in middle of shaft and 11,5 at base of shaft. The problem is that the base is too small, so the toy don������t stand up by itself, so I recommend a suction cup. But is an awesome dildo, make my ass full of dick!